The narcissist knows your weak areas and will target them. This is also the nature of HaSatan.

Narcissists are hostile and can get angry very quickly. In fact, scripture tells us not to be friends with them.

Proverbs 22:24 Tree of Life Version (TLV)

Do not be friends with one given to anger
or associate with a hot-tempered person,
lest you learn his ways,
and entangle your soul in a snare.

Remember, loving others means being able to forgive and to forget. This is maturity. Those who cannot forgive and walk out of your life even when you have done nothing wrong to them, have not experienced maturity (or integration). Scripture tells us that love keeps no record of wrong. But those who walk out of your life who cannot forgive, harbor…[Read more]

In this world when we mess up so many people only attack us rather than to lovingly explain things to us to help us understand better. This world beats us down many times and makes it harder for us to heal and get back up again. But the father reaches down out of his high place and lovingly Embraces us and lets us know we still belong to him. He…[Read more]

The late king of my community had ten wild dogs. He used them to torture and eat any of his servants who made a mistake. One of the servants gave an opinion which was wrong, and the king didn’t like it at all. So he ordered that the servant be thrown to the dogs.
The servant said, “I served you for ten years, and you do this to me? Please giv…[Read more]

When we seek the love of the Father, this is what heals us and drives our fears away. A long time ago when I was seeking this for myself and reading through scripture, I discovered the heart of Adonai is many passages. One of the key verses was this:

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of…[Read more]

Love and humility is the focus and foundation of our Faith. You cannot understand Torah without having these things FIRST. On these hangs all the Torah and the prophets.

Don\’t believe everything you think. We all have to work on our mindset and how we understand and perceive things. Messiah told us to remove the beam from our own eye first and then we would see clearly to remove the spec from other people\’s eye. Humility is the best thing we can do, and continue to seek humility and never think we have arrived.

The best thing we can do when we don’t understand another person is to talk to them and ask them why they think they way they do or why they said what they did or did what they did. Only then can we have a clearer picture of their thinking. It’s never good to speculate, only the fool does such things. And even then, if they are off base it is…[Read more]