Malignant Narcissism is Dangerous
Don’t allow the malignant Narcissist to get under your skin.

https://pairedlife.com/problems/How-to-Avoid-Becoming-a-Victim-of-a-Malignant-Narcissist

This site is authored by a man who escaped the prison of pain and fear, it’s a journey of a man abused since he was a baby into his adult life by a Narcissistic (NPD) dad who was a pastor who destroyed his entire family and had multiple marriages. This man rose up out of the dung hill to be set free and discover life at its best. He doesn’t want…[Read more]

I am not here to attack narcissists or call them out. I am here to protect, nurture and help the people heal who have been hurt by them.

The narcissist is never wrong. They believe they are entitled to everything. They will brag and step over anything or anyone along their path to get the things they want. This disorder doesn’t allow for the person to have a rational moral compass. They aren’t sensitive to anyone’s feelings.

I had another narcissist today I encountered and he lo…[Read more]

A contentious woman is condemned in scripture.

A contentious woman is a narcissist. In relationships and in marriage she will have continual arguments.

Proverbs 21:9 – It is better to live in a corner of a roof Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

Proverbs 25:24 – It is better to live in a corner of the roof Than in a house sha…[Read more]

People who are hostile and insecure will attack someone based on what they said because they misunderstood them. They do not have the love of Messiah. This is infantile behavior.

Controlling people are immature people. They are usually overly critical and assuming, also casting false allegation. Many times they are emotionally damaged.

Don’t tell a narcissist anything personal, they’ll use it against you and think they are entitled to do so. They will not honor your boundaries and they are good at exploiting your weaknesses even though they can’t get their own life in order. Because they have such a low self esteem it makes them feel powerful when they can put you down and…[Read more]

When you try to control other people or dictate to them what their behavior should be you’re interfering with the work of the Holy Spirit. Controlling is not loving and you are stepping in the way of the Ruach. Do you want other people to control you and dictate to your behavior? Don’t do it to them either because this is not the Fruit of the…[Read more]

Don’t be the kind of man that needs a woman, be the kind of man a woman wants.

Likewise:
Don’t be the kind of woman that needs a man, be the kind of woman a man wants.

I grew up in a hostile environment with a narcissistic dad who destroyed his family, went through several marriages and blamed it on all those women, never his inability to choose a good woman. He drove his children away and barely any of them talk to him at all any more. I stay in touch at a distance, a very far expanse. When my children were…[Read more]